Hello,
I am a huge promoter of marriage as you know. The reason for this is because it is the best basis for bring up children to be happy, confident human beings.
Looking around you may see children that misbehave and are undisciplined, and often this is due to them being from broken homes. Now, I do realise that many many women and men do an admirable job bringing up their children. I was brought up by my Mum; my dad died when I was six. I think I was brought up just fine!
But from my experience with men, and knowing how to behave around men, and learning man things - it would have been better if I had had a Dad around.
I have looked at studies of children and their progress after divorce. They continually show that children are affected by divorce far more than was previously thought. That they suffer for the whole of their lives, are less likely to have long relationships, are more likely to separate from their partners themselves - a whole cycle is started.
Now don’t think I am preaching to you - on the contary, I am divorced. I have a daughter. I wish I knew then what I know now - but it is too late for regrets. I am remarried now and happy.
This is why I urge everyone, think think and think again before you go for divorce. Look at the person, you loved them once, you promised to always love them. That person is there underneath, and you need to search for them.
The reason I promote the method of sorting out marriage problems is The Magic Of Making Up is because T’Dubs advice is astounding. It is simple stuff that is easily taught, and yet includes complex psychological tactics which you can use to make your partner love you more than you ever thought possible. It will also give you valuable insights into what men and women want from a relationship, which can make you marriage better than ever.
It is a simple formula:
The Right Advice + Consistant Effort = Wonderful Marriage
I hope that this site and in particular some of the articles help you. Please leave me a message if you have something particular you would like me to cover.
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Best wishes,
EF
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